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Post by LCARS on May 24, 2007 22:16:38 GMT -5
Wow Steph, that's terrible but you need to hang in there girl. In the end, life's adversities will bring you two closer together. My love life has all but completely fallen apart since Christmas with my current GF. I have a hard time with it because I still care a lot about her but she has become very distant and withdrawn and she refuses to let me in despite all my attempts to talk heart to herat with her and I have been very patient with her about it. I have no desire to "replace" her and would have one hell of an awkward time dating someone else while i'm still living with her but at the same time I know she is shopping around on me. Caught her on a couple of occasions trying to hook up with guys from chats & such and that just drives the nails in deeper. It's not exactly the same as your loved one getting a major injury like that but the pain is no less when you realise the one you love is no longer in love with you and is drifting away but you don't know why. I don't know what I will do without her but I can't let the fear of what lies ahead stop me from trying to make the best of it. I usually don't talk about personal stuff on here and I try to steer clear of responding to emotionally charged posts because I never really know what to say but I do still read them and feel for people's struggles here. If it's any consolation Steph, you're definately not alone here when it comes to needing some help once in a while gathering the courage to face life's struggles.
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Post by cina on May 24, 2007 22:36:11 GMT -5
Thank you. Ill lean on you you lean right back on me! I hope that all things good come your way soon. Steph
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Post by joe on May 25, 2007 0:23:00 GMT -5
Hang in there Steph. I can't even imagine that...
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Post by Deleted on May 25, 2007 0:45:08 GMT -5
I will keep him in mind cina and will pray for him. It looks so, so painful.
Nathaniel
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Post by adrian65 on May 25, 2007 3:23:59 GMT -5
That's incredible, driving with both arms broken! Even in shock! I had a broken arm three years ago and it was a paralising pain! The human body seems to have unknown capabilities!
He seems to be a strong man, he will recover and hopefully you will cherish each other even more than before.
Adrian
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Post by xenaswolf on May 25, 2007 8:09:42 GMT -5
Steph, here is wishing a speedy recovery to your beloved and a big hug for you!
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Post by beefjello on May 25, 2007 8:15:44 GMT -5
Wow Steph, I remember you said he fell but I had no idea his injuries were so severe. I'm so glad he is ok and I hope the last surgery was a success. You two are definitely in my thoughts.
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Post by cina on May 25, 2007 11:50:00 GMT -5
Everything went good!!!! I am sitting on the laptop telling all my wonderful RTH friends that today is a happy day!!!! Thank you! Steph
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Post by emyhro4048 on May 25, 2007 22:43:04 GMT -5
Hey Steph, How awful! I am so sorry to hear about this. I pray he will be OK with the surgery and be good as new. God bless you both and you have been more than strong for him. Ed M.
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Post by Cher on May 25, 2007 23:22:06 GMT -5
Everything went good!!!! I am sitting on the laptop telling all my wonderful RTH friends that today is a happy day!!!! Thank you! Steph Wonderful news Steph, I'm glad things went good. Now give him a big ol' hug and tell him how happy we are!!
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Post by cina on May 26, 2007 1:03:25 GMT -5
Will do hun thank you Steph
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Post by adrian65 on May 26, 2007 7:00:54 GMT -5
It's great he stepped over the last surgery successfully. One can almost say he's got two birthhdays now. As you see, your joy and happiness spreaded even overseas.
Adrian
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Post by cina on May 26, 2007 10:13:40 GMT -5
Adrian I think next year on March 10 I will be greatful to hold, hug and just flat out love him just cuz he is here! hehehe hold on I do that every day I tell you one thing I don't let him leave the house with out a kiss and the words I LOVE YOU you just never know. So my words to live by and to give each one of you is live each day like there is no more love like each day is a gift hug hold and tell them you love them no matter what. I'll start I love each of you in a very speacal way you make my days a bit brighter. Thank you Steph
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Post by Original Admin on May 26, 2007 16:21:15 GMT -5
Steph - hes going to get better - tough times there certainly, thats going through the mill as it were.
Hey let him know there are folks out here who appreciate that pain and actually feel for him. I hope it doesnt take too long to recover.
Those must be very painful injuries - I wouldnt wish that pain on anyone. Mark.
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Post by MrP on May 26, 2007 22:09:02 GMT -5
I wish both of you the best. I will pray it will all work out ok with a full recovery......MrP
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Post by maryann on May 27, 2007 18:57:51 GMT -5
Wow. Read this string with my mouth hanging open... Wow. Sending good healing energy up to Caspar. Healing will come - one day at a time. Know folks are thinking about you two.
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Post by gaetzchamp on May 28, 2007 0:29:19 GMT -5
Cina-
My thougths and prayers are with you 2. I hope a speedy recovery is in store!!! Hang on tight to that man.....even beaten and bruised he looks like a keeper.
gaeter
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Post by Bikerrandy on May 28, 2007 8:07:11 GMT -5
Glad to hear that things went well darlin. The virtigo will take a little time to go away, mine took a couple months but I'm normal now. Well, kinda ;D
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Post by karenfh on May 28, 2007 17:41:12 GMT -5
Cina, Bless your heart, gal, for hangin in there. Altho, what else do you do? You and your family have been in my thoughts and prayers. You have done an amazing job coping with a very stressful time. Makes me count my blessings. Sometimes, faith is the only thing that keeps you going. And it manifests itself in the strangest ways, sometimes! K
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Post by stefan on May 30, 2007 12:55:24 GMT -5
Damn Steph I did not realize all you were going through!!! Prayers are with you and your family- May the healing power of God bring a speedy recovery.
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