Rose
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Post by Rose on Jun 29, 2005 15:12:33 GMT -5
I'm scared !!! I got offered a job today and am starting tomorrow. So after working from home for 8 years I'm going back into an office environment. I know I will be fine once I get there but it is a bit daunting starting a new job and not knowing anyone or what I'm supposed to be doing lol. Its actually the perfect job for me, as it is working between 9.15 and 3.15 and is 200 yards from my kids school, so I can drop them off and go to work then pick them up at home time Just hope I can keep up with everything as I'm still going have to be doing the home working but fitting it around things including kids and study (luckily the home stuff tends to fluctuate) , plus and I need to still find time for the rocks too ! - maybe I can do without sleep !
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Post by hermatite on Jun 29, 2005 15:24:15 GMT -5
You'll do fine. Just remember the secret to all office work...if the boss comes by, stick your head in the filing cabinet and mumble something about "The Johnson File". You'll always look busy and, trust me, there is ALWAYS a Johnson file. Good luck and have fun.
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Post by krazydiamond on Jun 29, 2005 15:31:38 GMT -5
i'd be a little nervous jumping back into, too, but it DOES sound pretty perfect being so close to the kids' school. those are good hours, too. best of luck with everything, Rose!
KD
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flowoxsgarden
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Post by flowoxsgarden on Jun 29, 2005 15:44:01 GMT -5
Good luck!! Everyone is behind you here
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MichiganRocks
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Post by MichiganRocks on Jun 29, 2005 15:50:16 GMT -5
Hey Rose, I used to work with a guy who could sit in his chair holding a blueprint like he was reading it, but in reality was sound asleep. Everyone always thought that he was such a hard worker, but in reality he was the most rested person in the office!
Ron
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Post by Cher on Jun 29, 2005 16:27:49 GMT -5
Good luck to you Rose, sounds like a perfect deal to me.
Cher
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phoenix1647
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Post by phoenix1647 on Jun 29, 2005 16:53:30 GMT -5
Make yourself a litle ju-ju bag of rocks and wear it around your neck...they will bring you good luck.
Pho
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Post by docone31 on Jun 29, 2005 18:13:04 GMT -5
Rose, why, with what we do, and what we love so much, do we ever have to work for the man again? I have been self employed for about 15yrs, and I would never return to the man. In that journey, I have completely lost my corporate skills and related people skills. Henry Ford once was quoted, don't complain, don't explain, just get the job done. I have found with social control what it is, fuel prices what they are and are going to be, most people have turned into domestic animals. They flock to what we do in droves, and more are coming. In Fortune magazine, back in the early '80's I was voted Executive of the year. Me..... I still query about that. I made 250,000$ a yr, had unlimited travel, expenses, hot and cold secretaries, managed 145 distribution centers world wide. I could terminate at the stroke of pen up to 4500 people and then have coffee. I put a loaded shotgun to my head, pulled the trigger and the shell did not fire! I lost everything I had gained, and then some. I went to live in the bush in Alaska to never return. I almost died there. I wish you luck. I hope you find joy and feel challenged and growing. But, if you go to work, and you find the mucky ups talking like their heads are split at the jawline, and their heads move up and down and they talk nonsense, and, their eyes hide lies, and their 30 pieces of silver don't add up. Remember, people love the stone, and they want to meet the artist. If it worked for me, you should have a much easier walk.
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Debs
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Post by Debs on Jun 29, 2005 18:41:24 GMT -5
I wish you the best at your new job! I have worked full time at a law enforcement agency for the past 26yrs!!! I must admit there is alot more to life, than work! I have worked all my life and at 47 I want more out of life. There is never enough time to do the things you want to once you find them! I'm not sure how much longer I will stay there...I just know I want more freedom and free time. Time to spend with my family and pets, let alone hobbies. I would love to do charity work. As it is now I have a few hours each evening than it's off to bed for the next day at the circus! I hope it's what you wish for! Life is like a box of chocolates. You never know what you are going to get. Cheerish your freetime! When you work fulltime, there isn't alot of it go around...
What happened with you and your job Doc? Did you get burned out? I can understand that too! From what you have written above, I would say fate took it's course. In doing so you found yourself. You are alot stronger than you give yourself credit for! You have alot to give in this life and that is why you are here, in the now!
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Post by krazydiamond on Jun 29, 2005 19:01:38 GMT -5
i was 46 going on 47 and a nervous breakdown when i walked away to save my sanity (whatever i had left anyway). i may be a bit poorer in cash assets, but i am very rich in quality of life now, no regrets there. i'm trying to make this rock stuff pay for itself, but even if it never does, i'm a happy camper. sure a heck of a lot happiers than i was those last few years.
given the right environment, i'm sure i could play the corporate game again....but i'd really rahter not, thank you!
KD
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rollingstone
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Post by rollingstone on Jun 29, 2005 19:40:20 GMT -5
Good luck, Rose! The way I figure it is if you like the job then run with it. If you find that you don't like it, then just spend all your time on Rock Tumbling Hobby on their computers until they fire you. Works either way
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Debs
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Post by Debs on Jun 29, 2005 20:09:21 GMT -5
I agree with you KD! You can't buy happiness or freetime. Trying to balance them isn't easy and you always run out of time. I would be happier with less cash and more free time. I would be just as content working part time at a vets office cleaning out kennels or a garden nursery. I love to work outside on my gardens! Even pulling weeds as my tumbler tumbles is very stress relieving!!! We are all creative people who love nature and all the it offers us! I thinnk this job offer sounds perfect for you! You will do just fine. Perhaps all the years you have been a homemaker, you are now ready to go out there. You will know if it's right for you.
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Post by rockyraccoon on Jun 30, 2005 0:22:21 GMT -5
oh rose much luck to you. i would be scared too. i retired from my career as a mental health counselor at age 37 and went into business with my husband. it was a good choice though i was very scared about it at the time. wish i still had that paid insurance though lol.
kim
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Rose
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Post by Rose on Jun 30, 2005 1:11:41 GMT -5
Thanks for the well wishes everyone. The Johnson File - I'll remember that lol. I'll see how it goes, its just a big leap after working solely for my husbands business for so long (where you can tell the boss to get stuffed and wait lol ). I think I will fit things in obviously if it gets too much I'll quit, the main change will be not having much spare time once the kids are in bed because I'll have to study and work because the kids will have my time after school.
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Post by Original Admin on Jun 30, 2005 3:33:47 GMT -5
Oh no - what a crime. Just remember - if they give you any crap - any of them - leave. Your freedom to come and go as you please whilst you are on the planet is worth a thousand times a pay packet. Dont let anyone tell you what to do !! If they do - leave. Docs right - read his post carefully.......... Good luck - hope youre back home soon
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stefan
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Post by stefan on Jun 30, 2005 9:50:46 GMT -5
Hey with out the rats it's just a race (don't know what that means but it sounds cool) But do head doc's warning! sometimes the shotgun will go off (damn you people depress me!)
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stonedagain
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Post by stonedagain on Jun 30, 2005 13:08:01 GMT -5
I wish you the best of luck, Rose.
I can appreciate where everyone's coming from in regards to dealing with the man, but most of us haven't a choice but to work for a living, for someone else. I've been working for someone for the past 25 years (though not the same person for that long!).
It is what you make of it and you get out of it what you're willing to put into it.
I put in a lot of time on my job, but I find it challenging & rewarding, it keeps my mind fresh, I've made a lot of friends, I met my husband, it puts food on our table and a roof over our heads and allows us to take the occasional trips up north.
While I would prefer if I could work for myself, it is what I make it. I can choose to go to work and be happy about it and enjoy myself, or I can grumble about it and make it a pain in the a$$ to go to work and make myself miserable (and likely everyone else around me), but I choose to make the best of it.
Best of Luck Rose. Keep a positive outlook.
I do, however, totally agree with the mindset of only put up with what you're willing to. If you wake up every am and are depressed or bummed because don't want to go to work, quit. Quickly.
Life is WAY too short to be unhappy, but there's more to working than putting up with other people's s**t. There's great satsifaction in a job well done. The key is to enjoy what you're doing.
My apologies for the length of this, but the reactions to your have apparently touched a nerve.
~Rhonda
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MichiganRocks
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Post by MichiganRocks on Jun 30, 2005 13:33:11 GMT -5
Hey Rhonda, I agree with you wholeheartedly. I was an engineer for GM for 28 years before I was forced to retire due to my health. I loved working. GM wasn't the greatest place to be working, but there's good and bad in every employer. When I couldn't get any of my doctors to sign for me to work anymore, I fell into a very, very deep depression. The thought of not working was not something that I was ready to accept. In fact, the only thing that kept me going for that first two years was the fact that I couldn't hurt my wife by doing anything to myself. I don't talk about my wife much, but we really are very close. I spend a lot time alone these days, but it isn't her fault. We spend as much time together as we can, and hope to spend much more in the future. I've come to grips with my life now and have created a whole new life. Still busy, just not getting paid for it! I've had a good life, now I just concentrate on giving some it back. Being a corporate engineer, I spent my career dealing with all the beuracracy and the comings and goings of ignoramuses like Lopez. I could tell you about what used to go on in his meetings, but you wouldn't believe it. No one would ever believe the one of the largest corporations in the world could function like Romper Room. But I always just concentrated on doing my job, and steering clear of their circus antics as best I could. Well, I feel better now! Don't know if that does you any good though, Rose. Good news is, I got my diamond saw running here now. Time to cut the rocks! Ron
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Debs
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Post by Debs on Jun 30, 2005 13:41:32 GMT -5
I agree with you Mark. Life is about choices. When I first started my job I said I was only going to stay 4yrs. Now 26yrs later, I'm still there. Deciding to quit a good paying job with good benis isn't easy. But, you know peace of mind is worth so much more! I am so tired of micro managers and politics in government work. There are so many people we have to answer to working at a police department. It just gets old and I can understand why people leave that line of work...burn out! I have a new boss which I can't stand. If I decide to stay another 7yrs years until retirement, I have to ask myself is it worth it? I don't think so! I got so mad at one of our management meetings, I just stood up and said I QUIT!!! Yeah, just like that. At first I was scared to say the words. But you know, it felt GOOD! IT FELT LIKE THE RIGHT THING TO DO! Now I know I have the courage to walk away whenever the time is right for me. Believe me that day will come, but I just don't know when. My hubby says I can quit any time I wish, but I am use to having my own paycheck. You know, I will again when I decide to walk. I feel alot better after standing up to them and I'm sure they are still in shock! LO! I don't want to be one of those people like a guy I knew who had a heart attack one weekend and was suppose to retire from the city the following thursday. Life is just too short!
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Post by rockyraccoon on Jul 1, 2005 1:50:02 GMT -5
SOOOOOOOOOOO how'd it go rose??
kim
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