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Post by xenaswolf on Dec 11, 2005 17:53:15 GMT -5
Just as in "real" life, there are going to be times on message boards that folks don't see eye to eye, things are misunderstood, what have you. But instead of getting into a big flame war or name calling or making the board uncomfortable...couldn't we just keep things civil?
I love this board. I spend most of my day checking in on new threads. When an argument starts, it makes it really unpleasant and uncomfortable to read the posts. So I don't read them. But as the fights get bigger, more and more posts have to be avoided.
So, remember folks, there are real live feeling human beings on the other side of this screen. Think before you type and if you don't have anything to say but snarkiness and sniping, maybe its best not said at all.
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Post by Cher on Dec 11, 2005 19:06:41 GMT -5
Well said Xena! I agree, it's very distressing to see things getting out of hand.
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Post by parfive on Dec 11, 2005 19:51:57 GMT -5
When in doubt . . . . . silence is golden.
Rich
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Post by Toad on Dec 11, 2005 19:54:39 GMT -5
It's just so hard to control yourself when someone is making an a** of themselves. I will do my best to refrain, however.
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Post by xenaswolf on Dec 11, 2005 19:56:17 GMT -5
Well ya know what they say about a**es, everyone has one and they all stink...ok that's paraphrased but ya get the idea LOL
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fatrichie
has rocks in the head
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Post by fatrichie on Dec 11, 2005 20:07:27 GMT -5
I too am a believer in 'silence is golden', and 'if you can't say something nice' etc.
Very well put Xena, thanks.
Rich #2
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Post by krazydiamond on Dec 11, 2005 20:54:37 GMT -5
ok, what did i miss THIS time.... ? *sigh* KD
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Post by sandsman1 on Dec 11, 2005 21:27:24 GMT -5
i musta missed it too kd but hey whats alittle yellin between friends hahaha--- im teasin ---it makes me uncomfortable too so i dont read the ones i see rocks flyin through hahaha
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Post by LCARS on Dec 11, 2005 23:34:05 GMT -5
I try to stay out of the sandbox as much as possible...
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stefan
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Post by stefan on Dec 12, 2005 14:01:15 GMT -5
Xena what happened- We all get a bit of a temper occasionally and yes we can be hurtful- so I too will take the silence is golden approach!
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Post by rockds on Dec 12, 2005 14:50:48 GMT -5
can't we just all get along?
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carolelgin
starting to spend too much on rocks
BlueBelle
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Post by carolelgin on Dec 14, 2005 23:52:56 GMT -5
Snarking? What is snarking? I feel old.
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Post by Cher on Dec 14, 2005 23:54:57 GMT -5
LOL Carol, we used to call it bickering.
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Rose
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Post by Rose on Dec 15, 2005 5:43:42 GMT -5
Well said Xena
As I just posted on the thread concerned, new people coming onto the site would get pretty put off if that was the first thread they stumbled into - it does not promote and friendly and SAFE environment which as we all know this board IS.
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